The Power of Perception: Mental Reframing
"Perception is reality. If you are negative, everything will seem negative. If you are positive, everything will seem positive." - Grant Cardone
It all comes down to your mental frames. How do you perceive the world around you and the people in it? Your brain understands the world by associating elements together and making connections. With a better understanding of how your mind functions, you can take control of it by supervising the way it perceives everything. Mastering mental reframing can lead to a considerable increase in your fulfillment.
"Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change."
This is the foundation of mental reframing. If you tend to have a negative lens, you condition yourself to feel more negative feelings. That's why they say that how you see the world says more about you than it says about the world.
Perception is a powerful tool that can impact how you experience the world around you. The way you frame a situation can determine whether it is a source of frustration or a growth opportunity.
For example, if you see something as a "chore," you will do it against your will and it will drain your energy. However, if you see the same thing as a "necessity," your whole approach to it becomes different. This slight change in framing can make all the difference in your life experience and how much you actually enjoy what you're doing.
"Our life is what our thoughts make it."
-Marcus Aurelius
Our perception of the world shapes our reality. If you want to live a more fulfilling life, you need to take control of your thoughts and perceptions. This means learning to reframe situations positively.
A good rule of thumb is to always phrase things as if they were part of a grand plan you have. Instead of seeing your duties as boxes to check, see them as new bricks added to the wall you're building. This reframing can change the way you approach your work and give you a sense of purpose.
By reframing negative situations, you can change the way you feel about them. For example, if you're stuck in traffic, you can either see it as a frustrating delay or as an opportunity to listen to your favorite podcast. By changing your perception, you can change your emotional response.
The power of mental reframing is not limited to how you approach small tasks and situations. It can also have a profound impact on your relationships. If you approach your relationships with negative perceptions, you will likely experience negative outcomes. If you think everyone is out to get you, chances are you won’t be trusting anyone. Even the ones who may have good intentions toward you.
However, if you approach them with positive perceptions, you can create deeper, more meaningful connections. Because you’d be more willing to give people a chance.
This is not an invitation to be naive and trust everyone you meet, but rather an alternative approach to how you view strangers. A shift of focus from potential danger to potential ally. This is a hidden networking secret. Give people a chance.
“People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."
Mastering mental reframing is a powerful tool for creating a more fulfilling life. By changing the way you approach situations, you can change the way you experience them.
Yes, a person needs to delve into the reasons that some things are not just chores, but necessities. Necessities are ways of reducing adversity to a manageable level. For example, Some people perceive the potential adversity that we will descend into chaos if we stop being civil to one another. Others perceive instead a false adversity that being civil shows weakness. This touches on a theory that I'm not the first one to think of: Since adversity (real, perceived, or perceived potential) builds strength, then lack of the right kind of adversity creates weakness, throughout an entire society. Also, the wrong kind of adversity, such as that based on deception, creates strength that will be misused.